Creating a space where you can be free to embrace who you really are and receive support from people that truly care

This site is a culmination of decades of real-life experiences. If you are going through it, most likely one of us has too. We want to share with you our outlook, our empathy, and thoughts. We have grown through much and hope to help others do the same. From all walks of this life, we are here to offer our help with involvement in any number of situations. Please do not hesitate to reach out and share with us as we will share with you. There is enough “being tough” in this world. We all need someone to lean on at times. We look forward to meeting you.




Meet The Founder 

Imagine for a minute that you are surrounded by support

Support to help you, regardless of how bad things may seem in your world.  A secure space to discuss anything on your mind a receive love and compassion back.

Why we are different

Our vision with this site is to create a space where we can be real. Completely real and true without judgment or bias. Where we talk about real life things and get things off of our minds that might be clouding our judgment and lives. We want to be an outlet where we can share the good, and the bad, in an environment with a heart.  If you want a therapist, this is not the place for you, but if you want someone to listen, we are. We hope that you will join our private group where we can grow and learn and talk to one another.  Please remember, this is a judgment-free zone. We will be watching, and remember let’s keep it positive and uplifting. We can’t wait to meet you and welcome you!!

Recent Articles 

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I sent a video to a friend yesterday. The same kind of video I have sent a ton of times. Just a “hello”, with some encouragement, and positive thoughts. As soon as I made the video, I replayed it (of course) because don’t we all want to see what we look like in video? Now, […]

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It is said that we are influenced most by the 5 people we spend the most time with. These days, my circle is so small it’s almost able to fit in to a chartreuse micro bus. I’m good with that. People that motivate me, make me smile, cheer me on, kick my butt when I […]

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Today is the day we thought about yesterday Yesterday when I went to sleep, I had done something I had never done before. I lifted weight on a bench. A bench press. Chicken little, skinny armed, me did 3 reps of 10 at 45 pounds and let me tell you friends; that shit was hard! […]

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There are many beautiful and unique people in this world. Each one with a different soul, skin tone, voice, heart. We are all different. Not one of us is the exact same. Even twins have minute differences. We are all the only one of us in existence. Current events would lead us to believe that […]

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I’ve been hearing that starting over is the hardest thing one can do after a failure. In the last 6 months I have seemingly been trying to find my way through that failure, again and again, and again. Finally, two weeks ago I decided I couldn’t do it by myself.  I hired two professionals to […]

New Years Eve 2019
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Another turn around the sun. I started 2019 with a zeal to make my mark. To do something to help others and make a dent in the anger and sadness in this world. 365 days later, I seem to have lost that fire. In my attempts give people a place of love and understanding I […]

10 months ago no Comment

Wow. That kind of sounds like someone writing in to an advice column… But, seriously… I am very ready for fall. Cooler temps mean I can break out my comfy sweaters and my new Doc Martens… Maybe have a bonfire or two… Catch some beautiful fall foliage… Drink some warm, spiked apple cider… Oh, and […]

11 months ago no Comment

This is a photo of my dad, circa 1963…today is his 75th birthday. Three quarters of a century….. Wow. It’s pretty heavy when you put it that way. Then again, there was a time when I could not imagine being 40! (like, oh my god, 40 is SO OLD!) HA! Today, I guess I’m kind […]

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I really can’t put into words how I’ve felt over  the past few weeks. I’ve struggled with every emotion possible, and all on my own, because I have my family that needs me. Of course I have friends and family to lean on but they  also have their own baggage, they don’t need my baggage […]

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So, I have been absent lately…. Like 3 months absent. Life has a way of getting so hectic any more. Wake up, go to work, come home, cook dinner… Maybe do something afterwards that doesn’t include laundry or dish washing… Perhaps get a decent night’s sleep. Wake and repeat… Sometimes, when you feel overwhelmed by […]

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